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"Homosexianity", "The Gay Gospel?", The Bible

Postby johnsonshan » July 12th, 2010, 4:07 pm

Hello everyone.
So I ordered, and just received today Pastor Weekly's book, "Homosexianity" and Joe Dallas' Book, "The Gay Gospel?." I decided to order both, get out my bible, and read them all along side each other to help meet the challenge of scripture to be diligent in study.
I think I've fallen short of the verse....
"He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him."
....in many respects because while I took time to research and listen to debates, I feel I may have come to my conclusion before hearing the debate fully on both sides.
I never really told you my story, so I guess now would be a good place to do it.

Throughout middle school, I attended church because I was told to, but I never believed any of it. It was during this time that my mother told me that my oldest brother was gay. I was very shocked and hurt that they kept it from me for so long (i was last to know). I had never really thought about gay people because I never really had a reason to. But, I quickly came to accept my brother and we all moved on, content. However, I was friends with a couple of girls who were home-schooled, and through their witness, I came to accept Christ and my life changed dramatically.
Now, when I first became a Christian, I knew absolutely nothing about the bible. So when I heard people on television claim that it was a sin because the bible said it, I thought they were just lying or ignorant. But as I was following my, "read the bible in a year" calendar, I inevitably came across what we call "clobber passages". I remember showing my mother and looking at her disappointed face, discouraged that I was considering that it might be a sin to practice same-sex sexual activity. I told her that, I hadn't made a decision yet, but I can't ignore what's in the bible, and that I was terribly conflicted about it. She passionately insisted that my brother did not choose to be gay and there was nothing wrong with it. I already knew that he hadn't chosen to be gay. But as far as the morality of same-sex sexual activity was concerned and what the bible had to say about it, I wasn't so sure.
I'll never forget one particularly pivotal moment, I was flat out, utterly weeping on my front porch and crying out to God for some kind of answer. This was one of the clearest moments I've ever heard God speak to me, and He said to go read your bible. When I opened it, the first thing I read was this...

"It is a snare to say rashly, it is holy, and to reflect only after making vows." Prov 20:25
This was before I became affirming  or had any kind of stance on the subject, which makes me wonder what exactly I had been rashly calling holy. OR, looking back, was this a prophetic message/warning about the personal struggle i would be having and am currently having over this issue today.
I recall asking God to help me see the answer before going to college, because I just knew in my heart that this issue was going to come up and I wanted to,
"be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect." 1 Peter 3:15
Sure enough it did, and sure enough, I wasn't ready for it. A good friend of mine, who is lesbian, challenged me directly on this subject. I told her that I just didn't know and I needed time to make the decision. This was all freshmen year at college.
I started a study and kept computer journal in a word document. I looked up all kinds of internet debates, listened to speaking of faith programs, and examined some scientific research. I've got a list of about 19 websites that argue from both perspectives.
My conclusion was largely founded on the passage in 1 Corinthians that talks about head coverings (I started a forum about this called "Women and Head Coverings" under bibliology and hermeneutics).I used to pray with my head covered because the two girls who lead me to Christ did and still do and because of that verse (BTW they are my best friends ever, and I completely respect them for their beliefs). But once I got to college, I found that all my other Christian friends were praying without head coverings, and still experiencing the fruits of the spirit. Their explanations for the verse were things like, "do you really think God cares if your head is covered when you pray" or "that verse is because in that time and culture, it was immodest to wear head coverings, but now its not considered immodest."
Well those two statements brought with it many repercussions in my mind. First, if you make that claim for one instance in scripture, why not say it in other instances. Second, how did it suddenly stop being immodest to wear head coverings? I wonder what opposition came towards those first men and women who decided they didn't need to have their heads covered/uncovered to pray or prophesy; neither did it matter that their hair was correspondingly long or short. Third, if it really is just a cultural subjectivity, how do you explain why Paul uses the verse, "because of the angels", to substantiate his claim?

I have not found a convincing argument that gets around this seemingly transcultural verse. Yet, almost everyone I know dismisses the restriction without hesitance or guilt. In fact, they have the fruit of the spirit with them.
So I began to use this inconsistency and the evidence of the fruit of the spirit to be my driving force at determining the morality of homosexuality and same-sex sexual activity. The evidence of the fruit of the spirit being the, IMO, bad fruit from ministries like Exodus and other ex-gay programs.

I often think about that verse from proverbs, wondering if I've fallen into that snare of rashness. It was only within a few years (3) of deliberation that I stated my conclusion. I never really stopped studying though. And honestly, ever since I started this study, just about every day, I find myself doubting. Some days I feel like I'm just about going insane. I hear stories and see examples of good fruit and bad fruit on both sides (A and B), justifications for both sides, hear claims that the Holy Spirit spoke to both sides telling them both that they are the ones that have God's favor and I'm growing weary. In the end, no one seems to be able to answer my questions regarding 1 Corinthians in a convincing way and so I tend to rest on this argument, which I don't really like.
I'm not so audacious as to say that my struggle compares to the struggles that the gay Christian community goes through. Neither am I so hard on myself to as to say that my struggles aren't very real. I'm simply stating them to my brothers and sisters in Christ so I do not have to go it alone. Brothers and Sisters whom I know can relate to my struggle.

SOOO, in order to really try to stand confidently in my beliefs and get some PEACE about things...I decided to start a forum about my journey through Homosexianity, The Gay Gospel, and The Bible.
I'd humbly ask you all to pray for me that I won't be deceived! And that the Holy spirit will speak truth in power. That I won't be afraid to accept whatever that truth is. That I'll have the courage to do something about it.
Thanks everyone. Come Holy Spirit!
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Re: "Homosexianity", "The Gay Gospel?", The Bible

Postby Pastor Weekly » July 12th, 2010, 5:05 pm

Hello johnsonshan.

I know that God will continue to guide you as you study out this subject. You'll definitely hear a whole lot of theology on both sides of the issue, and it certainly can get confusing from time to time; but, there are answers to be had.

I read The Gay Gospel? about six (6) months ago and there wasn't a single point that he made that could not be refuted with sound principles of interpretation. So, as you're reading, if you ever come across an argument that gives you pause, just post it on the boards, or send me a PM and I'll make sure you get the answer.

When I have some extra time (which is a rare commodity these days), I'm going to be adding a Rebuttals section to this website, where I'll basically tear apart the arguments from various non-affirming books, so that as people read them, they'll have a resource handy to deal with some/many of those arguments.

I'm heading over to your other thread now regarding head coverings. I definitely understand the frustration of having questions and not getting answers that adequately put those questions to rest. As you read through the personal section of Homosexianity, you'll see that I experienced that myself, as well. So, I hope to be able to provide some perspective to help settle that concern with you.

God bless.
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Re: "Homosexianity", "The Gay Gospel?", The Bible

Postby johnsonshan » July 12th, 2010, 5:49 pm

Thank you so much Pastor. I can't tell you how much your concern means to me.

I want to try to document the progress of this study (for my own sake and for anyone else interested) just to have a hard copy, so I'll  write down what I'm learning and hearing from God's word as I go. This  Also, the two books obviously have different methods at presenting their arguments, so I may be reading further in one book than the other.
But for starters, I can can say for sure that God is with me on this journey. As I began the study this evening, the following scripture spoke to me....

Isaiah 54
""Sing, O barren woman,
      you who never bore a child;
      burst into song, shout for joy,
      you who were never in labor;
      because more are the children of the desolate woman
      than of her who has a husband,"
      says the LORD.
2 "Enlarge the place of your tent,
      stretch your tent curtains wide,
      do not hold back;
      lengthen your cords,
      strengthen your stakes.

3 For you will spread out to the right and to the left;
      your descendants will dispossess nations
      and settle in their desolate cities.

4 "Do not be afraid; you will not suffer shame.
      Do not fear disgrace; you will not be humiliated.
      You will forget the shame of your youth
      and remember no more the reproach of your widowhood.

5 For your Maker is your husband—
      the LORD Almighty is his name—
      the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer;
      he is called the God of all the earth.

6 The LORD will call you back
      as if you were a wife deserted and distressed in spirit—
      a wife who married young,
      only to be rejected," says your God.

7 "For a brief moment I abandoned you,
      but with deep compassion I will bring you back.

8 In a surge of anger
      I hid my face from you for a moment,
      but with everlasting kindness
      I will have compassion on you,"
      says the LORD your Redeemer.

9 "To me this is like the days of Noah,
      when I swore that the waters of Noah would never again cover the earth.
      So now I have sworn not to be angry with you,
      never to rebuke you again.

10 Though the mountains be shaken
      and the hills be removed,
      yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken
      nor my covenant of peace be removed,"
      says the LORD, who has compassion on you.


11 "O afflicted city, lashed by storms and not comforted,
      I will build you with stones of turquoise,
      your foundations with sapphires.


12 I will make your battlements of rubies,
      your gates of sparkling jewels,
      and all your walls of precious stones.

13 All your sons will be taught by the LORD,
      and great will be your children's peace.

14 In righteousness you will be established:
      Tyranny will be far from you;
      you will have nothing to fear.
      Terror will be far removed;
      it will not come near you.


15 If anyone does attack you, it will not be my doing;
      whoever attacks you will surrender to you.

16 "See, it is I who created the blacksmith
      who fans the coals into flame
      and forges a weapon fit for its work.
      And it is I who have created the destroyer to work havoc;

17 no weapon forged against you will prevail,
      and you will refute every tongue that accuses you.
      This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD,
      and this is their vindication from me,"
      declares the LORD.
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Re: "Homosexianity", "The Gay Gospel?", The Bible

Postby SoldOutGodChaser » July 14th, 2010, 12:49 pm

Praise God for your diligent study. God speed in your worthy endeavors.
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Re: "Homosexianity", "The Gay Gospel?", The Bible

Postby johnsonshan » July 18th, 2010, 12:30 pm

Sorry for the delay. One of my best friends got married yesterday, so the preceding week has been pretty busy up till now.
The introduction of "The Gay Gospel?" : "Between Comfort and Truth", Joe Dallas

One first things I noticed was that Dallas is not exclusively homosexual.
"..by the time I converted to Christianity at age 16 I'd had numerous sexual experiences with both men and women." (p.12)
And so far, he hasn't made an attempt to distinguish between homosexual, gay, bisexual, transsexual, or asexual (sorry if I left anything else out). I get the impression that homosexual/gay is an all encompassing category. But maybe he will later on. (Some would say these two facts, if left unexplained, could put an unfair amount of weight on his findings.)

Another thing jumped out at me when Dallas was describing his experience in an affirming church. He recalls the pastors sermon...

"We swallow their lies, we believe we're perverts, so we act like perverts! No wonder so many of us have been promiscuous! No wonder so many of us have lived half our lives getting drunk in bars, or high on drugs, or prowling in bathhouses. When you've been oppressed, and when you've been told all your life you're the rottenest kind of sinner, you believe it! That's why there's so much self-destructive behavior in our community!" (17)

Dallas makes the case that the "gay" community uses these ideas to explain the sin in their lives rather than the idea that homosexuality itself is sinful and produces bad fruit.
I can see where he was coming from. Being oppressed doesn't justify any bad behavior that results from it. But I guess that's not really what's in question. What's in question is whether or not same sex sexual activity is part of that list of bad behaviors...

As I read that, I could hear someone retort, "What about the African American community? While their oppression doesn't justify their sometime sinful behavior, it does not put into question whether or not their blackness had something to do with that bad behavior."
But again, that opens up more questions. When know for certain that skin color is unchangeable (actually that's not necessarily true...not to be mean, but Michael Jackson) and its something that you're definitely born with. We can't on a scientific level say the same for sexual orientation with certainty...as far as I know at least. *



*I'm aware that most medical associations will tell you that it is very unlikely change in sexual orientation can or will occur. There is a lack of conclusive evidence to support claims by ex-gay ministries. But there also has not been much of an attempt to produce long term studies on the subject.

-- July 18th, 2010, 12:25 pm --

Chapter 1 in "The Gay Gospel?": "Where we are now", by Joe Dallas

"The gay Christian movement...represents a tendency among Christians who are homosexually tempted to yield to that temptation and then try to justify it." (22)
I might argue that this is not the case for many gay Christians. Especially those who grew up in very Christian communities, went through decades of ex-gay therapy involving prayer, exorcism, fasting, and lots of money, only to find it didn't work for them. It was only after trying these things, and finding it didn't work for them, that they looked for explanations (or maybe they decided to write a book that was originally intended to prove that same sex sexual activity was wrong, but after further study, came to different conclusions... :wink: ).
I feel that the way Dallas presents his idea here doesn't quite represent the big picture of the "gay christian" experience.

I think Dallas brings up some important points in this chapter. He talks about a lot of bad theology coming out of some gay-affirming churches, like Foundry Methodist Church in Washington DC. Ideas that consider, "whether or not Jesus was a cross-dressing 'drag queen'"**....or strip Jesus of his "less-appealing qualities. Forget repentance, cross-bearing, and sanctified living. The sins that matter to Him mostly concern social justice, ecology, and the evils of fundamentalism" (29)
While I do think social justice and ecology are extremely important, and fundamentalism can sometimes be dangerous, I don't forget that the reason I believe those things is because of the message of the gospel of Jesus Christ. He is the reason I repent, bear my cross, get involved in social justice, and helping the environment. Without Jesus, I have no reason to be truly involved and motivated to make a difference in those places.

Another very important point...

"So the homosexual is caught between two voices: the liberal and the conservative Christian, both of whom are repeating part--but only part--of Christ's words to another sexual sinner, the adulterous woman: "Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more" (John 8:11).
"Neither do I condemn you," the liberal comforts today's homosexual. "Go and sin"
"I do condemn you," the conservative Christian too often seems to retort, "go and sin no more!" Or else he just says, "Go!" The sinner is then left alone to figure out just how to, "sin no more."

I might argue that the liberal does not say "go and sin." Rather, he or she just leaves that last part off completely, saying only, "Neither do I condemn you."
Regardless, I think this makes an excellent point.

Something interesting here. Dallas quotes Mr. Ron Rhodes, and says

"A person does not usually join a cult because he has done an exhaustive analysis of world religions and has decided that a particular cult presents the best theology available. Instead, a person generally joins a cult because he has problems that eh is having trouble solving and the cult promises to solve these problems" (30)

I see how he's trying to relate this to people who join gay-affirming churches just to hear what they want to hear, but this actually made me think of the whole body of Christian believers. I'm willing to bet that most Christians (maybe 90%), do not do an exhaustive analysis of world religions and afterword decide that Christianity presents the best theology available. For him to bring this up in order to further his point opens up more cans of worms than its worth...
I think that most people in the world do not do an exhaustive analysis of most things before doing whatever it is they're going to do. I'm not saying that's a good thing, I'm just stating that there's more to this statement then he's using it for. But this is another debate.

In this chapter he begins to define what the word gay means in his view.
"...gay has become a commonly understood term meaning not only homosexual, but homosexually affirming as well. So when a person says, "I'm gay," he's normally not just admitting his homosexuality. He's also saying, in effect, "I accept my homosexuality and celebrate it as normal and good....So when referring to a person, institution, or mind-set that affirms homosexuality, I may at times use gay as a descriptive term...I'm using a term identified with the approval of homosexuality."

As far as I can tell, gay is a term used to describe someone who affirms homosexuality. But that doesn't give us the actual definition of homosexual. Nor does it account for bisexuality, intersexuality, or transsexuality.

**Dallas does make note that these ideas do not represent the mainstream belief among gay affirming churches. Later on, he states that many gay affirming churches are shockingly similar to evangelical, bible-believing churches. In his view, that is part of the temptation that draws you in. On the outside, it looks just like any other bible-believing church. But he believes that once you get there, you discover bad theology and bad fruit

-- July 18th, 2010, 1:18 pm --

Meanwhile...In my bible studies.....

After reading these two books, I need to just take a break and read the bible to keep me sane. So I decided to read through Galations, simply because this is where much of the talk about the law comes in and what it means to no longer be under it.
Well, little did I know that the verses God lead me to read from Isaiah 54 are quoted by Paul in Galations 4:27! I think I'm on to something   :yahoo:

Lots of great/compelling/interesting verses are in this book:
"But that no one is justified by the law in the sight of God is evident, for "the just shall live by faith"...Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us" 3:12-13

"Therefore the law was our tutor to bring us to Christ, that we might be justified by faith. But after faith has come, we are no longer under a tutor." 3:25

"There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus" 3:28

"Stand fast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free,[a] and do not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage. Indeed I, Paul, say to you that if you become circumcised, Christ will profit you nothing. And I testify again to every man who becomes circumcised that he is a debtor to keep the whole law. You have become estranged from Christ, you who attempt to be justified by law; you have fallen from grace. For we through the Spirit eagerly wait for the hope of righteousness by faith. For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision avails anything, but faith working through love." 5:1-6

"Only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another." 5:13-15

"I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that you do not do the things that you wish. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another." 5:16-26


I know that's about half the book I just quoted, but there's so much to talk about.
Paul is addressing a church who repeatedly falls under the bondage of the law. He explains that once your start observing some of the law, you are indebted to follow the whole law. And we know that no one is justified by the law, but through faith in Christ alone. God gave us His Son and the Holy Spirit to free us from the chains of the law and make us justified before Him.
However, our freedom from the law, does not give us license to indulge in the sins of the flesh which Paul says are evident/obvious. He goes on to list those things...not necessarily including homosexuality in the list, but possibly implying it with the words, "and the like."
What exactly does Paul mean when he says, "the law" and "works of the flesh"
How can we say for certain what was implied by Paul when he said, "and the like"? Are the sins of the flesh so evident? Whether yes or no, surely the fruits of the spirit are. And against the fruit of the spirit, there is no law.
But what about demons? They know the bible too. They can perform miracles and are capable of producing fruit that seems good. I guess in the end, fruits show themselves (good taste, bitter stomach). But that makes finding the truth a waiting game...can that be right or am I just being impatient right now? How can we stand confidently in truth and be prepared to give an account of our hope if we have to wait for the fruit to show itself?
I can't wait to see where God takes me next!

P.S.
Can I just say that while I was at my friends wedding, I ran into their neighbors, the Godshalls. Actually, they ran into me. Mr. Godshall found out from my mom that I was going to be heading to seminary and came over to talk to me. He is episcopalian and in the course of making a pitch for that tradition, and he said that he didn't care about skin color or sexual orientation or anything like that the bible, reason, and science were all equally important and can't be left at the door. He told me to stay open and use your brain, haha.I'll do my best!
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